Consider for a moment every label you use to define yourself.

Hello world. The following is from 9/13/2016.

Consider for a moment every label you use to define yourself. Now consider every label that has been handed to you by someone else. When you consider each of these labels that you are holding forth as defining who you are, ask yourself if that label is a judgment. Is that label you are believing defines you a judgment and opinion being handed to you by someone else? Why are you believing in that label or judgment as being true, as being who you are? What purpose does that judgment serve? Who does it really benefit?

When I willingly looked at what I was believing defined me and this world, I began to heal. I also began to see how every label being handed to me was a judgment and opinion. All create a codependent relationship whose only function is to place the free will of one being into the control of another. The tools being used would be fear, shame, guilt, blame, violence, punishments, and the list goes on and on. All are forms of manipulation.

One must look below the surface of a “wound” or “hurt” to see where the true cause is hiding. Many times the true cause is a choice and decision we ourselves have made to judge ourselves, a situation, others, and how we are being treated as us doing something wrong and being unworthy. When we are not being accepted as we are we conform to try and fit in. In many instances we will accept another’s judgments and opinions just to gain that acceptance from them and…