Have you ever considered that there are NO victims in this world?

Hello world. The following was written 09/20/2016.

I share the understandings given me of abuse and that which I had experienced and was taught to accept as a child growing up. That there is no difference between a man or a woman when it comes to abuse. They are both equally capable of meting out the same style and types of abuse. That in every situation we are the one who is choosing to accept it and allow it to continue happening for us.

Have you ever considered that there are NO victims in this world? In every instant we are given a choice in how we will experience any given situation. That everything we experience is for our benefit. Each experience has a lesson within it that is sitting there waiting to teach us about ourselves and who we truly are within. Have you ever considered any of that? Accept and allow that what you experience may be different from what another experiences and that every situation is perfect for you.

I spent 6 1/2 years with my Son’s father. After my son was born shit hit the fan fast. I stand 5' tall even. My Ex was 6' 6" x 6' 6"…meaning he weighed in at around 450 lbs to my 165 lbs. After my son was born my ex began throwing things at me and shoving me around. Then he started picking me up by my arms and shaking me like a rag doll. The day I left him he had picked me up and began shaking me and slamming me up against a wall. Our son was in my arms. He was almost two at the time. In that moment I knew I needed to…