Recognize what it is you are choosing, is what you believe.

Hello world. The following was written 01/17/2023.

On January 12, 2023, my Husband Alex shared on his Facebook timeline, the passing of our cat Chance crossing the Rainbow Bridge after a battle with kidney failure. For the past week a brother has chosen to comment on this sharing, with a diatribe of what he thinks and believes Alex should be thinking, saying and doing. I have sat back watching and reading what this brother has been stating, until today. Today this brother chose to tag me directly, in his diatribe to Alex. The following is his last statement to Alex tagging me, with my own response to him.

A brother states, “Alex Reyenga now what?

More long posts?

More attempts to explain?

More misunderstanding?

More “I didn’t say” from you and from me?

I don’t know how to say this anymore. I have tried. I don’t want to just watch stuff that you and she recorded.

You choose. Make the rules if you want. I don’t think it’s going to be helpful to be typing on this post and comment stuff much longer. I know that the dynamics of a verbal conversation in which a give and a given for each other and to each is “worlds” apart from the safety of written words. I would be a hybrid if I didn’t insist on this. I am surprised by this development too, but it is not an option.