Relationships and Trust, their words and actions show their intent.

Hello world. The following was written 7/20/2015.

Had a situation come up were the Hubby’s Ex’s started coming out of the wood work. They would start in with private messages and then move into wanting to meet up secretly. Say how they wanted to be friends with me his wife and yet would never reach out to me for that friendship. When conflict would arise they would make suggestions of meeting up or coming over as long as I am not there. How the light begins to dawn when he realizes they were never being honest in what they wanted. How they were looking for someone to save them from themselves and it did not matter who it was they would be hurting in doing so.

When does trust fall away? When we recognize our trust has been betrayed. What qualifies as a betrayal? Whatever we “perceive” of another’s failures. Failure to provide. Failure to perceive that we should come first in any relationship between Beings. Failure to forgive. Failure to agree. Failure to love unconditionally. Seeing their willingness to walk away from everything together you have made. A home and life built on fantasies and dreams.

All crumbles with a text from an ex or a new friend they met while out with friends. They see not the intent reflected in their mirror as they get ready to leave. Until you tell them you know what’s been happening. Then everything becomes crystal clear. When that friend then calls and tells you they don’t want to visit. Why not? Because your life is no…