Hello world. The following was written 11/09/2015.
True communication in a relationship is about sharing honestly and authentically from the heart without holding back. It is about accepting each other exactly as you are, when you are. It is about not judging each other. It is about supporting and listening to each other as you share from your hearts. It is about recognizing how each of you have a different way of viewing “your” world. You are allowed to see as you see, feel as you feel and think as you think until you decide to choose differently and they decide to choose differently for themselves. Recognize and accept responsibility for what you think, feel, and experience. You cannot know what is the right path for anyone but you. Accept them and accept yourself as you are and in joining together you achieve the ability to walk together as one with one mind, one heart, and one Spirit.
When one comes to the understanding they are only responsible for themselves and what they are experiencing and perceiving, one begins to see the world they had previously perceived is illusory. Everything they believed in was a judgment taught to them. They are taught they are responsible for whatever is happening to those around them. Taught they are supposed to fix and save the world. There is no fixing or saving the world. All we may do is look within ourselves and change our minds about what it is we choose to believe. In letting go our judgments we see nothing has happened and all is perfect. In this way we change our minds and the world we see changes with it. As we choose to change the world changes with us.
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.