We learn to hold the Light for our partner in their hour of darkness.

Hello world. The following was written 2/25/2017.

A brother asks, “What after one year of marriage……………..

When one have explored all of the history of one’s partner.. All of biology.. All of psychology.. All of geography.. All of chemistry.. All of philosophy.. All of spirituality.. All of whatever remains………

Now what……..?”

My response, “The next step is to accept them as they are in every moment. Allow them to be as they are choosing to be without judgments. When this acceptance and allowance is permitted unconditional love will flourish. It will matter not what they are going through or experiencing in any given moment. Your unconditional love will help to center them and balance them when their world seems to be in chaos. The more you choose to accept them unconditionally and be the example of this, the more they will reciprocate this with you. It is that support and allowance that will carry any relationship through the darkest of moments into the light of another day. This process has been working for my Husband and I for 18+ years now.”

Another brother responds, “It’s always about how i feel about me ….all i see is of me.”

My response, “They reflect back to you that which you have chosen to believe to be true about you brother. Nothing more and nothing less. See past what you think you perceive to who they truly are within them. When you let go all you thought…