What you see in your brother is a reflection of you.

Hello world. The following was written 1/18/2017.

A brother asked, “Why some people always carry negative perceptions?”

My response, “Something to consider here brother… We perceive what it is we are believing in. We enact what it is we are believing in. We experience what it is we are believing in. We believe in what we have been taught by our parents, family(aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings), peers, and society. All of us are taught to conform to and believe in whatever is being taught to us as children. All of us are taught to NOT question what is being taught to us. We are taught to blindly follow and accept whatever is being stated as the absolute truth. Because they believe in it we must believe in it too. If they have judged it as being this I must judge it too.

Now consider these things you are judging to be negative… They are judgments you are holding. When you are hearing your brother share, are you listening to actually hear them and where they are at in that moment or are you listening to JUDGE them and their choices being made on THEIR journey?

Consider looking within your own heart and mind at your own choices to believe as you are and you may find that you are holding onto just as many “negative aspects” as your brothers do. That you have judged what they are saying and doing because it does not fit with what you choose.

What you see in your brother is a reflection of you. It is a reflection of all that…