You choose who YOUR family will be.

Hello world. The following was written 1/9/2016.

Contemplating a sayings I grew up hearing such as, “You can pick your friends. But you cannot pick your family.”

Guess what? BULLSHIT!!!!!!

Holy Spirit and my Guides state, “You get to pick who your family will be. Each and every one of you get to pick who you want to have as your family. Anytime you choose a Spouse or Life partner, you are choosing who your family will be in that moment. That being is your Choice! Key here is understanding that your other family’s opinions and judgments about that Being mean absolutely nothing. When push comes to shove they no longer matter. They are not paying your bills or putting a roof over our head any longer. You are no longer answerable to them for anything nor for any reason.

So why continue listening to their vitriol? Why continue giving credence to the garbage they believe to be true? You are capable of looking within yourself to find what it is you hold forth as Truth. You have a choice. YOU, HAVE A CHOICE. The choice is yours. THE CHOICE, IS YOURS! You choose what you want to believe in. You choose what you will place your faith in. You choose who YOUR family will be.

In the end… no one’s thoughts or opinions will matter except your own. You are the one that has to live with your choices. So why give someone else the power to dictate who you are going to spend your life with? Why allow someone else to dictate what you do and when you do it? Why continue…